Since independence biological parents have a childcare

Posted by shell on September 13, 2008 in Children Encyclopedia

As more and more of the first generation of only-child parents, their child-rearing and child-rearing methods of the social impact of the growing show. “June 1″ Eve, the reporter learned from the municipal women’s federation, the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, part of the Joint Institute for Youth District Education Office kindergartens, nurseries in various districts of the city’s “independence and” parents made a sample survey of parents. Survey results showed that: one-child-rearing the next generation in the family and education, has its unique advantages.

Significance of child-rearing: “life experience” than “reproduction”

Today’s “independence and” parents can be more from a personal level to understand the significance of child-rearing, such as “life experience” and “fun.” And such as reproduction, child-Fanglao and other traditional utilitarian purposes has been greatly weakened. The survey, 53.5 percent of the “independence of Health” Parents recognize the “child-care is an essential part of life” and “increase the enjoyment of life.”

Such a “parental mind” is also reflected in the next generation of gender preference on. Survey found that “independence and” parents do not value their children’s gender, 76 percent of “independence and” parents that “no matter male or female, are good” 16% of the “independence of Health” Parents want girls; Special “Health and boys want to” only 8.1 percent.

Reproductive value: personal development for the family “primer”

“Independence and” parents in some aspects even more than ordinary parents. Survey, in the face of “When the cause and the parental conflict, how to choose» “hypothesis, there are nearly 1 / 5 of the” independence and “parent choice” not to cause the child “, while the proportion of the non-exclusive biological parents Only 11.8 per cent. Clearly, the “independence and” parents more emphasis on individual development and self-feelings, but most of them believe that to achieve personal development can assume the primary responsibility for the family.

Child-rearing methods: favor the new media also rely on their elders teach

In child-rearing methods, the use of new media and draw on, “independence and” ahead of their parents. Among them, 45.7 percent of people had used the Internet for child-care knowledge, higher than the ordinary parents of the 7.2 per cent. Despite the “independence and” parents are happy to use the new media, but the network is still very limited role. Therefore, at this stage “independence and” the parents of the main channels of parental knowledge is still newspapers magazines, and television broadcasting, and other elders teach. A total of 37.9 percent of the “independence of Health,” the elder parents, “Yanchuanshenjiao” as a more reliable “experience”, this is higher than ordinary parents by 3.8 percent.

Family relations: dealing with not less

Survey, 45.7 percent for “independence and” parents of children from families to care for grandparents. The traditional view: There is no relationship between brothers and sisters in the one-child relationships deal with the existence of inherent weaknesses. However, the survey found, both in the inter-generational relations between husband and wife relations, “independence and” the parents of the relations within the family mediation is not inferior to non-exclusive biological parents. (Gu-king)